Whether you have to finish an assignment or prepare for your exams, you always need some time to spend with your special someone. Here are a few tips on how you can balance your studies and love life effectively.
Create a schedule
First and foremost thing to do is creating a schedule. You already know when your classes are and when you need to study, therefore making a weekly plan is a good idea. Mark the time and days for the same on your phone and follow it strictly. It would be even better if you inform of this plan to your partner and ask them to co-operate with you. Likewise, you can plan your outings or dates on a weekly basis well in advance.
This is the best way to balance relationship and love life. In this process, you get to watch each other and understand the way you guys Study, you get to ask yourself questions while you read.
You laugh in the process, you say funny things, you might even tell your partner to hit you when you fail a question…all these help to make studies fun and in the process makes the love life get stronger.
One thing about studying together is that you can learn new things about the course your partner is studying and she too gets to learn yours. That’s the fun of it.
Spend quality time
When you are with your partner, make sure you both have a good time. Enjoy each other’s company and don’t waste your time nagging and fighting about stupid stuff. Don’t worry if pressure of exams or projects has limited your romantic dates for the time being as distance makes the heart grow fonder.
When you are assigned a project or assignment, avoid delaying it as it will lead to piling up of more and more work to do. Rather divide it into smaller assignments and finish them off one by one without any delay.
Limit your phone usage
We all know that phones are a huge distraction; therefore, it is better to switch off your phone while studying. Try to control your urge to call the other person every now and then.
Know when to give each other Space
This is where most relationships get into problems… knowing when to give your partner space and let her be for a while.
There are times that she will not like to study with You, let her be.
There are times that she will want to be with you all day, let her be.
All these things are bound to happen so you need to give her space to accommodate all these.
Though it’s not easy to balance love and career, but it’s worth it.
Things might not go as Planned
It’s normal that things might not go as planned, it’s normal to have relationship problems in college, but handle it well.
While you study, encourage your partner to study with You, wake her up at night to study, ask her questions based on what was studies and see your relationship and love life become a great success.